Luqman nangis. Ummi dia happy je snap gambar. Hihi.
To me crying is therapeutic. Bila dah habis menangis tu, rasa lega yang amat. And I do love crying at the movies, I'm easily touched. Kadang-kadang bila tengok talent show bila orang ramai duk bangun tepuk tangan bagi standing ovation pon boleh macam oh tersentuh dan bergenang air mata. Haha. Lame, I know but it's somewhat makes it more worthwhile. Macam, layan dengan penuh perasaan. Dan bila somebody lakukan benda yang sangat sweet, especially when Pitt does, yang mana dia ni bukan kategori lelaki romantik, I will tend to shed a tear. :`)
Dan aku juga akan menangis bila rasa marah yang sangat. Aku jarang marah, usually simpan dalam dan telan, but when I am sooo angry, aku akan menangis. Then, masa pregnant dulu, pernah menangis bagai nak rak, sampai, sesak nafas. Masa tu tengah terliur sangat nak makan lamb chop kat kedai mamak dekat ngan rumah. Sekali tengok dah tutup. Pergh, serious frust gila. Dah order dah air segelas, terus bangun dan chow tak minum, then melalak dalam kereta, sampai ke rumah. Haha, damn emo.
But I've always been extremely sensitive when it comes to food, especially bila lapar, macam baby. Lapar je nangis. Haha. So time pregnant tu memang exaggerated kesensitifan itu. Ish ish. Tapi lepas tu, bila ingat balik, memang gelakkan diri sendiri, sebab rasa macam lawak.
Masa zaman sekolah dulu, kan ada sessi muhasabah diri, time kem motivasi, depa tutup lampu, pasang lagu, pastu duk buat ayat dan sajak konon nak kasik insaf dan sedar diri. Haha, lepas tu mulalah dengan orang duk teresak-esak, ada gak yang duk gelak, lelaki usually, tapi last-last tengok depa pon hidung berhinguih, mata merah, nangis jugeeekkk.
Lepas tu, bila tengok mak sendiri menangis, secara otomatik kita akan menangis. Dan nangis yang paling best, bila nangis time tengah berdoa, dan semestinya, pertama kali bila melihat Ka'bah. Huh, tak dapat digambarkan perasaan ketika itu!
So, what do you think of guys who cry? I mean bagi perempuan bila nangis ni, macam alah biasalah. But when guys, it's expected for them to maintain macho. But I have heard from friends, their boyfriends yang jenis kuat menangis. Kadang-kadang kalah perempuan duk nangis. Mostly because of relationship issues lah, bila gaduh etc, mintak maaf semua. I don't wanna think negatively of these guys, cause lain orang lain cara handle emosi kan regardless of gender, but like I said, kita dah biasa relate guys to being macho.
I have only seen my father cry once. That was when I was, perhaps 10 years old. I went to my neighbors house, selang satu rumah je pon. Naik basikal. Then bila balik tu, tengok awat semua duk kecoh duk kat luar rumah ni. Rupanya they were looking for me. And my dad was crying while hugging me.. :`( Huh.. Sebak. Then Pitt pulak, when we have these long serious talks about life and regrets and our future, and he talks about his appreciation for his parents. Rasa macam oh.. makes me respect him and love him even much more. Sebab Pitt ni jenis muka ketat, doesn't really show his affection and emotions, so bila jadi macam tu, rasa macam sangatlah tersentuh and I can see his sincerity.
Dan aku juga akan menangis bila rasa marah yang sangat. Aku jarang marah, usually simpan dalam dan telan, but when I am sooo angry, aku akan menangis. Then, masa pregnant dulu, pernah menangis bagai nak rak, sampai, sesak nafas. Masa tu tengah terliur sangat nak makan lamb chop kat kedai mamak dekat ngan rumah. Sekali tengok dah tutup. Pergh, serious frust gila. Dah order dah air segelas, terus bangun dan chow tak minum, then melalak dalam kereta, sampai ke rumah. Haha, damn emo.
But I've always been extremely sensitive when it comes to food, especially bila lapar, macam baby. Lapar je nangis. Haha. So time pregnant tu memang exaggerated kesensitifan itu. Ish ish. Tapi lepas tu, bila ingat balik, memang gelakkan diri sendiri, sebab rasa macam lawak.
Masa zaman sekolah dulu, kan ada sessi muhasabah diri, time kem motivasi, depa tutup lampu, pasang lagu, pastu duk buat ayat dan sajak konon nak kasik insaf dan sedar diri. Haha, lepas tu mulalah dengan orang duk teresak-esak, ada gak yang duk gelak, lelaki usually, tapi last-last tengok depa pon hidung berhinguih, mata merah, nangis jugeeekkk.
Lepas tu, bila tengok mak sendiri menangis, secara otomatik kita akan menangis. Dan nangis yang paling best, bila nangis time tengah berdoa, dan semestinya, pertama kali bila melihat Ka'bah. Huh, tak dapat digambarkan perasaan ketika itu!
So, what do you think of guys who cry? I mean bagi perempuan bila nangis ni, macam alah biasalah. But when guys, it's expected for them to maintain macho. But I have heard from friends, their boyfriends yang jenis kuat menangis. Kadang-kadang kalah perempuan duk nangis. Mostly because of relationship issues lah, bila gaduh etc, mintak maaf semua. I don't wanna think negatively of these guys, cause lain orang lain cara handle emosi kan regardless of gender, but like I said, kita dah biasa relate guys to being macho.
I have only seen my father cry once. That was when I was, perhaps 10 years old. I went to my neighbors house, selang satu rumah je pon. Naik basikal. Then bila balik tu, tengok awat semua duk kecoh duk kat luar rumah ni. Rupanya they were looking for me. And my dad was crying while hugging me.. :`( Huh.. Sebak. Then Pitt pulak, when we have these long serious talks about life and regrets and our future, and he talks about his appreciation for his parents. Rasa macam oh.. makes me respect him and love him even much more. Sebab Pitt ni jenis muka ketat, doesn't really show his affection and emotions, so bila jadi macam tu, rasa macam sangatlah tersentuh and I can see his sincerity.
Johnny Depp in Cry Baby. Nak tisu? Meh lap kat baju I.
Okay, while we're at it. Nah some videos:
Yang ni agak kelakar lah. Hehe.
Okay, yang ni memang tersentuh.
This guy masuk Islam.. and the guys there were crying.
Even though I tak paham apa budak ni cakap, berlinang je air mata..
You can even hear in the crowd, the men there crying.
So girls, do you know guys who cry? And guys, do you cry? If you do, when, why? If you don't, are you ashamed to cry because of what people might think? I'm just curios to know. I think we girls are lucky, because it's normal for girls to cry from the society's point of view, but not so for the guys, because it might show a sign of weakness. Agree, disagree? Apakah pendapat korang?
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